Dropped S off and instead of instantly saying bye I let W initiate conversation. Need to to better at this in the future but anyway. W was kind of rambling and I was detecting some disrespect so I said:
Me: I better get going W: what’re you gonna do? Me: probably go on a motorcycle ride W: (mocking tone) ohhh I’m so cool, I have a motorcycle, I’m a doucheb*g. Me: Watch your mouth. Don’t talk to me like that. W: (still mocking) ohhh did I hurt your feelings. Me: no but you are being incredibly disrespectful. Goodbye. W: it was a joke, I was just joking around.
She kept going trying to draw me back but I left. Hour later she texts me picture of S and “S wants to show you his new backpack”. I haven’t responded. She still hasn’t mentioned being served or the D.
Sooo I’m glad I shut down her disrespect. Probably could have been far briefer about it. I’m upset with myself for how angry I was over the situation. I shouldn’t let interactions like this get to me or effect my mood but it did today. Need to work on that. Thanks all