Yes, we will get the S agreement done and as you said I'm going to work on myself, try some new things that I've wanted to do and we will see what happens from here. I'm confident I can lovingly detach - and if she chooses to D, then I'll be in a better place mentally to handle that once I'm detached.

Plan is to golf, see friends, and find a cooking class to go to when she's with our son. I'd also like to start kayaking.

Today was her day with our son. She came at 7:30am and brought coffee for me. I thanked her, we had small chit chat and then I said I had to shower and get going. The chit chat was mostly me validating her challenges at work and a bit about our son.


H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019