Thanks for sharing about the rat. That would have freaked me out too. I bet S14 was pretty wound up.
I’m glad the appraisal is done. It sure was an ordeal. What was H doing there with a broker anyhow? On that day, at that time. Suspiciously weird. I think you were dealing with three rats that day.
I am sorry on how hard all this is on you. I really do feel for you. Being me, and accurate - you are in a better place, a good place. It shows in your postings. Thoughtful, more emotionally stable.
I do understand the questioning of your faith or trust at the moment. You will figure it out, and find your way, of that I have no doubt.
I am proud and impressed with you Gerda. Your H is h3ll bent on divorce, I know a little of how that feels. You’ve done all you could to delay; and now you are praying and moving towards finding a quick resolution. Much respect.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
