My Story

[joejoe1]

BB,

I really recommend you stop having sex with her. Stop initiating sex, it makes you look needy. You know she's having an affair and you still want to have sex with her? Her heart is with OM, she is basically using you as a warm dildo. You are worth more than that.

Back off and let go. She has to feel what's it's like to lose you. That won't happen if you don't allow space and time. She has created her plans for how she sees her future playing out. You need to put all your focus on yourself and boys. Most WW have grand plans, and they barely work out.

My W, wanted me to move out and get an apartment, while I pay for both households. She was going to get a job and place our 1 year old at the time in daycare. And she was going to go back to school. It was grand. Then she went to price daycares and that plan started to crack. Then she wanted to stay together and separate at the end of that school year. And I DB right in front of her.

I allowed her too be, it was hard as hell. But I GAL my but off. I detached with love. And, one-day she thought I was seeing someone else. She told me, "I get it, and I don't like the way I feel thinking about you with AP". I just looked at her and walked off.

On another day I asked her to shave my back, and she said, "This is my last time, tell that b#tch you with to do it". All I was doing was GAL. I started to lose interest in her and she started to feel it.

Then, when I was tired of the disrespect, I Divorced her in my heart and mine, and one night, when I caught her talking to the OM again. I told her to pack her sh't and get out. I wasn't playing anymore. She felt it. She felt, that I meant it. I didn't need no long drawn out declaration. All I need was her to feel my actions.

Onward and upward