Your last post was completely about, what your WW will do.
Listen, I'm imploring you to reread your last post over and over. Because it was written by a very weak man. You can't control a thing your WW does, and that post was all about trying to predict an outcome. STOP IT! The only thing you need worrying controlling is you. YOU, YOU, not your WW.
It's her choice to go. Stop blaming yourself, ACCEPT your fault, forgive yourself and move forward. Her decision to go or not go is her decision, and her decision alone.
You wrote 3 options, then gave yourself two paths, then ended with yourself seeing one outcome (that was wild). You have to focus on yourself, too much focus is still on her.
The options you need to give yourself, should be about you, and only you.
Options 1. Tell her: Her reaction is none of my concern 2. Don't tell her. Her reaction is none of my concern
Both options, leads you down the same path focusing on yourself, healing yourself, and loving and respecting yourself. IMO you are trying to go to Rville, in hopes of getting your WW to change her mind. Without respect and honesty, Rville will not work. Focus on honesty and respect, you want your WW to be honest and her too respect you. Be the man and take the lead. You start with being honest to her and respecting yourself.
If you are not living in those values, why are you expecting your WW too?
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
