You've got to let her go so she can miss you. If she doesn't want you as a husband, she shouldn't be able to have you as a friend. You can read up on some of the pursuit / distance resources here.
As a benefit, not seeing someone is incredibly helpful in detaching. No contact really lets you deal with your own issues and helps the LBS fog to dissipate. Be prepared for when she contacts you though - they don't want us around, but they don't want us to get over them either.
