She also mentioned this morning she told her mom she may move out. Her mom advised her it would be abandonment if she left. So she has reconnected now with her mother and I expected that would happen eventually. I played golf today and when she got home from the pool she quickly started complaining about being bored. I’ve got a feeling it won’t be long before she moves out to live with one of her friends. Should I just stay out and let her make all the moves as far as leaving and filing for divorce? I won’t to save my marriage but I know our marriage is over until she goes through this. She stays at work late and locks herself in the bedroom when she gets home. I want us to be cordial for our boys but is this possible when you are betrayed and lied too like she has done. She wants us to have split custody of our 13year old, sale the house, and go our separate ways. Problem is she is so tied up in her affair that she doesn’t have time to file for divorce. Besides she wants me to do it due to her having an affair and her admitting to a one night stand back in November. She doesn’t love me anymore or she wouldn’t have basically cheated 3 times within the past 6 months. Am I crazy to even want to save this marriage for my youngest son? It’s tough to live in the same house with a cheater. I entered the room twice this morning and she quickly hid her phone under her arm and was smiling about it. I mean she is doing it right underneath my nose. It’s eroding my self-respect.