I’d simply say no thanks and keep moving forward.

If she wanted to work on things you’d get way more than a 4am text with two words and a question mark. Just a stalling tactic in my view.

Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
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