Originally Posted by Max2k10
My marriage is like a car which we bought without knowing how to maintain it. We didn’t know how to maintain it and it broke down. She’s decided that it is totaled. Turns out, there are manuals out there, but she’s not interested in fixing it or even to see if it could be fixed.

I see what you mean about if I intend to remove it to get a reaction, then I am not detached. But as long as I wear it, I’m sending the message that I am Plan B. I want to stop that.


Uh no. Wearing your wedding ring says you stood before God and family and friends and committed your life to your W. It says nothing any being plan B. Wear it until and if you are divorced.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018