Originally Posted by Steve85
Excuses......that is what I read above.

Why come to a forum where we preach DBing techniques that work...then buck every single one of them?

GAL. Detach. 180s. It is simple formula. Chasing, pressure and pursuit will land you in divorce court way faster than DBing.


Truth.

And Steves analogy of a car is not that the MR is like a family car that you don't know how to maintain. Its about knowing what needs to be done to maintain the family car, but trying to do the maintenance after the family car has been crashed and set on fire. Your MR has crashed and burned, now is not the time for maintenance (cousneling etc).

Now your family car is crashed and burned, you have two separate cars, one for your wife and one for you that are both driving in different directions. Now is the time to start focusing on your personal car since its still running although in a breaking down state, doing the maintenance on your car and getting it in top shape again.

Your wifes car is all decked out with Autozone fake chrome and she is giving rides to other men. No point in trying to get her back in your car because she doesnt want that. Just focus on your car and making it bad a$$.


Last edited by SoTorn; 08/10/19 02:02 PM.
M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019