My marriage is like a car which we bought without knowing how to maintain it. We didn’t know how to maintain it and it broke down. She’s decided that it is totaled. Turns out, there are manuals out there, but she’s not interested in fixing it or even to see if it could be fixed.
I see what you mean about if I intend to remove it to get a reaction, then I am not detached. But as long as I wear it, I’m sending the message that I am Plan B. I want to stop that.
Last edited by Max2k10; 08/10/1901:58 PM.
Me: 36 W:38 M13 S10 D8 ILYBNILY: Feb 2019(?) Sep in House: Mar 2019 EA1 started 2017, discovered 6/19