I picked up the kids, she tried to lecture me about how to get the kids to the doctor if they get hurt; I already know how to do this, I’m an adult and a parent. I told her I felt she was questioning my parenting ability again and I asked her to stop.
LB I see we continue to fight the same battle!
Did you thank her for the pizza coupons?!
bballer - Every adult on this planet is responsible for their own actions and their own emotional well-being. Don't take any unnecessary blame.
Common blaming phrases I hear from my W:
"You made me feel..." Nobody can make anyone feel anything "You made me do..." Huh? "I know you don't like to..." Mind-reading
Keep an ear out and you'll start to recognize your W's go-to blaming patterns. And you'll also recognize how they are all bait traps trying to get you sucked into pointless arguments.
