Originally Posted by bballer1
If we reconcile it will be difficult to get past all she has told me and the way she has behaved the past two months.

You have to get past all of that stuff before you can reconcile in my mind.

She has likely been in an inappropriate relationship for 2+ years...don't worry about reconciliation right now.

Is an affair a deal breaker for you? If so then you just file for D and move on. If not, then you've got to decide what youre going to do.

Last edited by LB55; 08/09/19 07:29 PM.
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D Final 7/2020
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