Hope, I'm wondering if you are grieving........or maybe you are fighting the process of grieving.
How much did finding out about this woman he has dated, cause this conflict in considering whether or not to DB and fight for the M?
I don't mean to sound judgmental, and I hope I can word my question right. Is it the desire to be a whole family for your daughter that drives this urge to continue the fight...........or is it b/c you love him so strongly?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
