This kind of stuff happens everyday in our school systems and they just sweep it under the rug. She got a call 2 years ago from the assistant superintendent that there was rumors about them. That was two years ago!!! I don't want to see her lose her job but we live in a small community and people have to know what is going on. Everyone at her school probably knows too. The kind of thing people know but don't really say much outside of private conversations. I feel like I should leave and file for divorce considering all the betrayal and deception that has taken place. If we reconcile it will be difficult to get past all she has told me and the way she has behaved the past two months. Thanks for all the support on here!