Its ridiculous how they lie. I hired a PI and have video proof of my EXWW staying in the same resort hotel room over several nights.

After confronting her they cane up with a story that he was really sick and she stayed with him to make sure he was ok. Desparately trying to convince me that there was no affair. She almost beloeved herself.

Believe nothing they say and half of what they do.

Yes, your expectations need to be set to zero with your WW. Stop trying to mind read or assume what she plans. Just accept that as of now, focusing on yourself is the path to happiness and being emotionally healthy.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019