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[SoTorn]

Thats a great idea. I got myself set up financially because I accepted that D was coming. Drop all expectations of your MR. You are no longer MR. Its just a piece of paper now.

Every day that you successfully DB, you will feel better and better. You will eventually get to a point where your WW has zero affect on your emotions. Even if the detachment works and your WW stops what she is doing and tries to come back, you may not want her back. Your goal is to get yourself healthy emotionally and get to a point where you are comfortable with your life moving forward no matter what.

I decided that cheating was a dealbreaker. Coupled with the extreme emotional abuse, gas lighting and mistreatment, I was done. I now have a younger GF who is absolutely amazing and treats me much better than my EXWW did even when she wasnt cheating.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. You will get through this and you will be fine single or not. YOU DESERVE BETTER! We all deserve someone who cherishes their relationship with us and would never hurt us like our WW did.