My EXWW also got mad when she felt me pulling away. She got mad solely because she lost control of the situation. My EXWW had it all planned out. She literally thought I wouldnt find out and that she would convince me that her not loving me anymore was my fault.

She would tell me things like "I just need space right now, if you don't leave me alone then I will go file for D". Your WW wants you as plan b. My EXWW even tried to get me to stay living in the house with her for the sake of the kids and stability. I ruined her plan to have her cake and eat it by finding out about her A.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019