I think you are doing well and would work on letting go of the guilt

this was his decision and you allowed him to peacefully choose his path
standing is a choice and if it dos not feel right, you have to honor that

I stood for about 2 years..during our separation process
Each of us has our limits to how long we want to wait and what feels right
for me it was when he filed, we D and XH immediately M OW--

trust yourself-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow