bballer, to build on LH's post (and LB55's), you make the cat curious by becoming attractive. Attractiveness requires commanding respect. Sorry, but you do not command respect by being Mr. Maid.
Start thinking about ways you can command respect. Sandi's rules are a great start!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018