Maybe I know what to do 6

[SteveLW]

So almost relationships are horrible. I am very clearly in one with W.

I was in an almost relationship with a girl for 9 months once. It stunk I finally told her that I had feelings for her and we had to be a couple or nothing. Cause I couldn’t just be her friend. She left and I never saw her again

oz, obviously I think you should give this more time to see if she comes around. But you need to realize that eventually you may need to make a similar stand with your W. I say give it a good year. If nothing changes, then make it known you are not interested in remaining platonic. Just be prepared to move forward NO MATTER WHAT SHE DECIDES. This is what your goal for the next 10 months is. To get to a place where you are so awesome that you will continue to be awesome no matter what ends up happening with your MR!