That does not surprise me-
reality sinking in for him
and it may not look good from his angle

MY xh got crazy during the D when he saw I was going to protect my kids and assets
I was fair and within my legal rights
but
it becomes a business deal and my life and the future of my children came before him and his OW

Truth is my XH didnt want any adult responsibilities when in crises and he didnt care about the assets
he only wanted freedom so he exchanged everything including his kids to be free

the OW =freedom to him because he could be himself with her and live a life in replay with drugs/alcohol
gambling with no one to answer to because she was just like him -
12 years later..he is still doing that..miserable addicted and broke-

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow