W, You have one good moment and already you want to go back into please her mode. Buy and read the book! Why would you feel bad that she has to clean up the dog $hit in her house?
Trust me I am not going into please her mode. I was just saying that I am listening to you guys. Because for a split second I did feel bad, but then thought about everything everyone has been saying and it felt great not to do it. Trust me that feeling was for a split second, that’s it. I will be ordering the book. Look forward to reading it.
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Originally Posted by Wolfman
Oh and did you see the dog puked in the dining room?
"Yes I wasn't going to say anything because I'm sure you are embarrassed about that. But yes, I nearly stepped in it, you should really get it cleaned up, you wouldn't want to have to clean off my shoes in addition to the puke. " Then leave with the kids. OK not exactly validating, but sometimes validation is inappropriate.
That is funny. Not that I care but she would have got so mad if I said that. I wish I thought of it and I would have.
Today will be a great day meeting up with a bunch of friends with their kids at the winery. They have live music the kids can run around and the adults eat and drink wine. The best is, I told you all how she made plans on my day with the kids and I told her I already had plans with the kids. Well one of th families that she made plans with is now coming out with me. To the average person it wouldn’t be a big deal. But to her I know she is going to be very angry. Don’t care though.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
