I've made a complete 180 and that seems to have made it worse. I am doing everything as she was doing it before. Cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, washing and folding all the clothes.
How’s that working out? Cooking. Cleaning. Laundry.
Total beta man behavior. Wash her car, clean the toilets, vacuum the rugs, brush the dog, vacuum the fridge cooling coils. It won’t make a hoot of difference. She isn’t looking for a maid.
You may have done things wrong...but not EVERYTHING...marriage is push and pull... either spouse is a partly responsible for the failure.
Take care of yourself. Stop being the wimpy house cleaner. Helping out is fine but don’t take it as your sole duty in life. Vacuuming isn’t why she is upset.
Last edited by LB55; 08/09/1905:37 AM.
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