So my ex husband (legally separated, not officially divorce) is still in the replay stage of his crisis. OW still very much in the picture. I have so much respect for all of you that have chosen to stand, for me it wasn’t the right decision. I still, however, have to live with his crisis somewhat because we have young children. And although I don’t want a life with him, I still care about him and want him to get better. My question is this...do you think by not standing, him knowing he can’t ever have what he threw away (assuming he would want that of course), do you think it prevents him from ever completing the crisis? Like would he think to himself, well I’ve already screwed everything up, what’s the point? Interested to hear what you guys think.
