I continuously make and break contact with my lady. I control the amount of time together. I am closely observing her while we interact. A skill I learned while dating was always ending phone calls first. This plays into that.
I will be busy taking care of things, every time I walk past, I do something different. Sometimes, I do not make eye contact and keep going. Other times, I quickly flirt, or a quick kiss. Other times I rub her neck. When she talks, I listen. Sometimes I say "let me finish this (task I am working). We can talk about this this evening over a glass a wine."
This always lets me get away
H:"I need to use the restroom. lets finish this after (Name some activity like "the dishes are done"). Then I go to the restroom. Then I continue working on whatever I was involved in.
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