I am not sure you need to be aggressive about any of it. Just GAL, detach, and work on your 180s. Give her the time and space she asked for.
Read cadet's links again. A lot of those tell you what your demeanor and behavior would be. I kept a copy of sandi's rules with me (electronic on my phone) at all times!
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