It seems like a lot of the success stories and sticky wisdom posts are people being a lot more amicable with their spouses than the current advice. Why? Detachment is freaking tough, especially for those of us who are optimistic in general, but is there more to it than that?


Me: 36 W:38
M13
S10 D8
ILYBNILY: Feb 2019(?)
Sep in House: Mar 2019
EA1 started 2017, discovered 6/19