A year on and standing

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Guys,

Thanks for the insight.

LH,

I don’t think I will still be attending anymore of the family functions once the divorce is through. My thoughts are for now, the invitation from her parents had been extended to me and I am practising the only going if I felt like going and not for any other thing else.

We are sharing the ride because we drop off the kids together and by that time if I am to take public transport, I would be late. We only have one family car and as I also contribute to it, I felt I do have the right to use it and the she dropping me off after the kids had been a routine.

Noted on the validation part. I was kinda lost as till current state, I’m not too sure already what to reply her as it’s repetitive and getting sickening. Just thinking if she’s a totally gone case or there is still possibility for her to get out of the fog down the toad and if I am to still stand, what should be my behaviour. Same? Or aggressively distance myself further?