Thanks AS and Steve. Don’t let me fool you lol. I’m still struggling. It’s just now I kinda get it. I get that I have two choices. Stay in the muck. Where she put me. Or go get a freaking life. Be awesome. Maybe she likes me after that. Maybe she doesn’t. That’s up to her. But I’m not going to be available forever. I’m not anyone’s pet.
What I do get hung up on is is how much I’m available for her to come to as a safe place. A solid place. Someone on here told me to be her safe space. To know she can come to me and that will build trust and respect. But I’m not a doormat either. I could use some help finding the balance
