Thanks Nef, I know there is respect. Yesterday she sent me some random text while she was on a scavenger hunt for work at a famous athletes house. A picture of her and some of her co-workers posing with him. I just responded with “cool” but why she feels the need who knows however I would rather it be friendly stuff like that vs the alternative.

We leave for our little mini vacation today, the dr will be coming up tomorrow and we riding with my daughters friends parents. We have entire bag dedicated to booze so I will definitely need to detox next week. My oldest has come down with some virus and has been feeling run down with a slight fever, a bad cough as well. I am taking her to the dr. Office at 11:30:so she can see her and prescribe some meds for her. She said she can’t perscribe meds without having a chart. Me taking her to her office was her idea.

I am not a take advantage type of person and am very aware of the situation I am in. While I do very well for myself I don’t have the financial resources the dr. has so I am aware that situation exists. That said that is why the three H’s has served me well along with my mindset of going slow and enjoying the moment. She has told me she has dated many men that we’re moving fast, one of which asked her to use her credit card. That is just stupid, I could never imagine.........


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018