Just validate when she says it will be expensive, or hard, or whatever. Do not figure out the divorce for her. She is an adult and you are not her assistant. I'd stop sharing rides if possible too.
She keeps bringing up the divorce b/c she isn't sure. If she was sure she'd have taken action. Don't let emotion (fear in this case) guide you.
THIS^^^
She's also using to try and manipulate you. That is why detachment is a must!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
