Here's what I replied after she texted "you're not doing it?" just now. "No. It's not really my job anymore. The thought of it doesn't feel ok right now."

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.