Barb

Unfortunately, there is no way to know what he will do
so It may be a wise plan to take at least 6 months to a year and work on you
Heal , let him go to figure his life out
you get some support and therapy and do the grief work which you have been already doing
journel and find ways to soothe your pain..it is hard for a few months
then the pain lessens, more and more as we let go

so even if you leave things as they are, you let him come and go and your full intent is to heal you
during this grieving time, you can go out, make friends, join groups ect
learn to play a sport or dance or hike ect
and be willing to TRUST the process

trusting is the key-
your life will not let you down you are guided and will be lead if you trust
find faith, god, or whatever may help you in this

remember you are not alone
we have all been there and will support you in your letting go-

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow