Midlife wife crisis9

[Wolfman]

Here’s what happened yesterday. So I text my d to be ready at 12 that I was picking them up and leaving. I text my w how did the session go with my d’s IC? So she calls me and says are you coming soon to pick up the kids, I said yes have them ready for me when I get there I just want to go. She said can you come in for a minute want to talk to you about your d’s IC, I said can’t you tell me over the phone she said I will tell you when you get here. That was my first mistake I should have said I don’t have time. As soon as I walk in I notice that there is dog puke in the dining room. I said kids I am here get your stuff ready we are leaving in 1 minute. My w was in the kitchen and I walked in I said
M: hi and what did the therapist say?
W: the therapist said that she is doing better.
M:what else?
W:that was basically it. Oh and did you see the dog puked in the dining room? I said
M:I saw, she is puking again?
W: yep and of course I am left to clean it because no one around here cleans it for me.
Just for all the readers I always took care of the husky’s mess the shitzu the kids did. Once I left my w had to take of huskys mess and I would hear about it all the time. My husky is 16 years old they never live that long so unfortunately now on a rare occasion she makes in the house of pukes, certain foods are hard for her to digest now.
M: I know it’s so frustrating the kids don’t just clean that stuff up.
So my kids came over to me and said are we leaving yet. I said yeah.
W: isn’t SOMEONE going to clean up the mess before you leave?
My son said fine I will clean it up. I said to my d you should help him.
W: you can’t have the kids clean it up, I will do it. She said that with attitude.
W: this is ridiculous I have to do everything around here.
My son helped her clean it up. Once they were done.
W: this is no way to live, bye. And she stormed out.
If that wasn’t a set up for me to clean up the puke I don’t know what was. I’m sorry there was not much to validate and I was not coming over just to clean up puke for her. Before these conversations I would have ran to do that. Nope. Don’t try to trick me into coming in the house then for me to clean it for you. Sorry. I’m picking myself up off the floor and no longer being her doormat. My gut was saying just have the conversation over the phone about d’s IC. Now I know.

LH that will be my motto: Respect = attraction.