Steve85- I appreciate your feedback. I know you are correct. But what am I supposed to do about her financial obligations? I risk taking on debt just so she can have her freedom and contribute nothing to the family?
How would you suggest I handle that part?
Originally Posted by jac12
So the question is: should I move forward with the S agreement? It's business and I can move on and let her be to sort herself out.
There is obviously a risk of this upsetting her but does this go against DB principles?
I do not blame any LBS for trying to protect themselves financially and legally. The problem is that a lot of LBS use financial concerns and legalities as an excuse to try to control or manipulate their WAS. "Maybe if I separate finances then she'll wake up!" "Maybe if I present her with a S agreement she'll wake up!"
This almost never works. So yes talk to a lawyer. Yes create a S agreement and get her to agree to it. Yes separate finances so that you are protected financially. But do it for the RIGHT reason, to protect yourself legally and financially. Not as some grand action to get her to wake up and come back to the MR.
Remember jac, most of the time no action is the best action at all. The LBSs that struggle the most are the impulsive ones that have little patience. If you are normally an impatient person, use this opportunity to learn and practice patience.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
