I’ve been pondering starting to DB again, and have gone back and forth a lot. One thing that is nagging me is the fact that it feels like when I really dropped the rope (and I really did, for a period of time there) and subsequently told my husband that if he wants a divorce then he should hurry up and do it (regrettably I said this in the heat of a moment, and not in a DB manner at all) a month or so later, that’s exactly what he did. Perhaps that should be a clear sign that my DBing efforts had no effect on my marriage or on my H. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
