Moving Forward

[SoTorn]

Listen to Steve Jac. Nothing has changed. Your MR was over. Its still over. No more R talks as it does nothing but show pursuit. When you talk about R it pushes her away further. When you tell her things like she isnt the same person and you show disappointment it just causes her to self justify even more.

Keep working on yourself. Remove all expectations you have of your WW and your MR. Its time for Jac to improve himself. Its time for Jac to do everything he has ever wanted to do. Its time for Jac to step up and take care of his own happiness. That is all you are responsible for. Being a good father and being good to yourself. that is literally all that matters right now.

The more you detach and the more you work on yourself the less you will even care about what she is doing. You will get to a point where you may go file for D because youre done and ready to walk your path and set yourself up for your own happiness.

Its hard yes. It hurts yes. But there will be a time where your emotions are not affected by your WW.

I hurt for a while. I still hurt because I miss the comfort of my family and being with my kids all the time. But I do not hurt, nor miss my EXWW. I decided that I need to love me and my children. Thats it. Thats all that matters. We deserve much better than what our WWs decided. So go get that much better. Its in your hands now.