It's time for you to become the man that demands respect and is not waiting on respect. Tell your W the truth before you go there, because if you don't, when you get there and she finds out you know in front of a stranger, it won't be pretty and that will be dam near impossible to come back from.
THIS!! With one small correction. Be the man that COMMANDS respect.
Your W is a WW. You have to switch to tough love. Or you will be in limbo for a long time. WW are notorious for doing whatever they want, and cake eating for as long as the LBH allows it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018