Persistent Endurance (Part 5)

[curtis7]

She knows you know about the affairs because that was one of your boundaries if she came in your house.

She knows that I’m aware that she’s in contact with OM. She doesn’t know that I know the extent and that the infidelity has continued beyond January when I confronted her the second time about hooking up with the 25 year old pickup artist in her car. She has called them her friends, trying to lead me to believe that there was no physical R with them.

I wouldnt even bother to tell her..

Let her find out herself..

2 reasons in my thought process for this

1) - she doesnt respect you.. How do you think you will look to her, if she knows you know about the affairs... and still want to try

2) - She has eaten cake from day one.. I dont believe this is any different... If she is accepted into this thing, she is still lying anyway ( or more than likelly ) - and you keep detaching / walk away.. She has an agenda.. or maybe its to say "oh kids mummy tried " etc

just MHO

It is possible she said yes to try and save face with family and the kids. That was essentially the outcome of the three failed MC sessions at the beginning of the year. She tried MC and was able to say it didn’t work.

I do like the idea of the program reps asking her the questions and her having to respond. I don’t really see anywhere on the website where it lists the requirements to attend, otherwise I could refer her to that and ask in general if she’s good with all of the stipulations.

AS, do you recall how quickly they call for the phone interview after registering?