WW was with divorced BFF last night and it appears that has cemented my fate.
Don't sweat BFF. She's just an "enabler" and all that means is she is telling your W what she already wants to hear. She is going to surround herself with enablers and cut people out of her life that try to talk some sense into her. It's what WAS's do.
Yeah this rings true for me too. The only friend I hear anything about is divorced BFF that lives in waterfront home paid for by alimony of 3 previous H. My W spoke of wanting to live next door to her because its just so peaceful before she BD me. She is the one that provided books on how to 'live for yourself', 'divorcing narcissists', 'power negotiating', etc to W. BFF is a of the proponent of sayings like men are pigs and women don't need men in their lives, etc.
Funny thing is W has been telling me how necessary it has been to cut the 'negative' people from her life to make things better. All the 'negative' people are all of our friends from before BD. You know, the ones that know me and the ones that would advise her she is doing the wrong thing on every account. She has no friends from before BD. According to her they all 'left her' and she had no choice but to find new friends.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
