Ok this may sting a little bit but you don’t seem to get it. Throw out all the bs you see on tv and movies what you think a woman wants and what they really want are two completely different things. You became the woman in the relationship and she became the man. You doing all the house work. Not attractive. You allowing her to talk down to her. Not attractive. You not being the leader of the family. Not attractive.
Respect equals attraction. Say it 50 times in your head.
I have a friend who works full time and his w stays at home with one 15 year old daughter. He also does all the cooking and cleaning. He often says his wife is the boss. He has sex twice a year on his birthday and Father’s Day. That’s his reward for being an obedient husband. He’s miserable but is afraid to D.