She also wanted me to kiss her hello every time she walked in the door, kiss her good bye every time I left and goodnight. She brings those things up a lot. I get it now, easy fixes but won’t let me fix that.
I’m not saying I never did those things either.
You probably did these things without thinking about it, a lot of the time. 3 years ago WAW school friends husband died of cancer - very quickly - At that point we both realised how short life was and i decided to tell her "I love you" every single night before i fell asleep - even if she went bed first and was fast asleep, i ALWAYS said it when i put my head on the pillow.. No matter how i felt ( ie when we had disagreements ) i always said it.
I also used to compliment her on her looks - always have...
After BD, she stated on more times than i can remember that i never told her i loved her ????
After our 2nd council session we lay in bed together and i told her how much i loved her and how beautiful she was - her reply -
"aww thats the nicest thing you have said for months - you never tell me i'm beautiful ?????"
i lay there thinking ( this was before i discovered this site, understood the WAW mindset ) what planet are you on.. I tell you all the time ???.. At the time i was really confused by her statement - now i know its the norm with all these WAW.. But they only remember what they want to feel at the time.
Don't let it get to you - Believe nothing that they say..
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
