Persistent Endurance (Part 5)

[MrBrside]

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MrBrside has seemingly come out of nowhere

I've been here a while but HATED my username.. It sucked!!! my account was created during a time of desperation..

I may have moved on, but the username always reminded me of how i used to feel - it had to go...

I have added the following to my sig, but it doesnt show on posts...

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Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.

Don't sweat BFF. She's just an "enabler" and all that means is she is telling your W what she already wants to hear. She is going to surround herself with enablers and cut people out of her life that try to talk some sense into her. It's what WAS's do.

I think you used this word (enabled) - you or somebody else did recently and i never got chance to comment.. and its bang on. My WAW did just this. Enablers and validators. I first heard this word off the marrige counciler on a 1 to 1 call.. She told me i was an enabler, as i always found a way to give the WAW what she desired / wanted. I suspect a lot of us become enablers ( happy wife, easy life rubbish ) - its when they dont get their own way, it goes south.. But its a catch 22.. I think they also lose respect for the bloke that bends over backward to do everything to create this "happy wife / happy life"