Nope not important, while it is very unfortunate hopefully it might help you realize the totality of the situation. It will take some time before she starts to view you differently. You just can't wake up one morning, go for a run, and then when you come home her arms are open and she is ready for sex. It will take sustained change and commitment on your part. Hopefully over time she will take notice and decide you are the best option. Hopefully she will continue to give you the the time you need to work on yourself and get your confidence/swagger back.
