Jac it's called riding the storm out. You don't try to do busy renovations in the middle of a hurricane. All of our wives were done with their marriage after BD. All of them neglected their responsibilities of they were wayward. All of them said things similar to your wife. The key is patience. Your sitch is no different now than it was before this discussion. The only thing that changed was your entire emotions based on her words. You've broken two DB principles:
Don't start R discussions. Believe nothing she says.
Just like before she is likely to do nothing and sign nothing that moves S or D forward. We say this all the time, that usually the LBS has to do that. WAS are notoriously lazy about that kind of thing.
Jac, when you have the urge to do something usually the best course of action is to do nothing. As Cadet says, in DBing doing nothing IS doing something.
Take a deep breath. Step back. Calm down. Stop trying to control the sitch and her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
