That’s totally your choice too; to be the one to be done and never accept her back. I’m not taking a hard stance right now because I’m not 100% on the affair. She certainly has a ton of the red flags but it’s not my concern right now. I’ll cross that bridge when it reads it’s ugly head. The truth comes out eventually in all of our situations it seems. That’s a trend I’ve seen in my 8 months here. If I find an affair then I’ll have to choose what to do as well. Maybe that’s tomorrow maybe it’s not. Today I made a nice dinner and chased it with some Oreos.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.