Persistent Endurance (Part 5)

[curtis7]

Sorry C I'm not buying any of it.

You guys were right. Her awakening was not sustainable. It didn’t last, she is back with the OM. Was with him the night of D5’s birthday...unbelievable.

Oh well, my hopes were up, but fortunately my expectations were low, so I’m not feeling too bad about her diving right back into WW.

My point being its not only the OM who is the problem. So even if your WW has ceased contact with OM, until she breaks away from the influence of the best mate, she will never be 100% committed ( IMO )

MrBrside, great post! I wish I had more time to respond, I’ll just comment on this part for now. The wake and funeral are over for the widowed friend’s deceased H. WW was with divorced BFF last night and it appears that has cemented my fate. She has been with my WW this entire free fall into the depths of immorality and deceit. I fully agree with you in that even if one OM went away, BFF would do her darnedest to make sure there were more OM before W considered coming back to me.

Today is 9 months post-BD. Interesting development, I scheduled L appointment today. W sent a text asking me to call her to talk about something. I didn’t call, then a short while later she texts never mind, all cleared up. I come to find out she opened a case through her legal services today and was assigned my L. Her second text was after she had a different L assigned.

So, my W and I really think alike at times, sad in this case, but uncanny. It appears we both had the same thought in mind. Perhaps the funeral we attended today was the final nail in the coffin for our MR. Once I found out she has went back to OM that did it for me. I can no longer tolerate the disrespect. He is the last one she thinks about at night and the first one she thinks about in the morning. I will not remain in a MR where I’m an afterthought.

To make things more interesting, I decided to hit send tonight on an email I drafted a couple months ago asking her to attend Retrouvaille with me. I am fully expecting a no or no response, however it gives her something to think about. Nothing left to lose at this point and if the question ever comes up with my kids I can show them that I tried up until the end.