I don't know enough about your IC to second this, but what I do second is NOT settling for IC just because you've gotten comfortable with them. ICs are like anything else in life. There are good ones, bad ones, and in-between ones. There are good ones that eventually the time comes to move on from them, even though they were good. ICs shouldn't be any different than anyone or anything else in life, shop around!
I get what you both are saying, how do I know when one is good and one is bad?
Sandi that does not make me feel any better, it sounds like my w was way worse than you. It is what it is. I have to move forward.
Quick question, tomorrow is our 15 year anniversary. Say nothing and do nothing, correct? It saddens me that I know tomorrow will mean nothing to her. I always tried to go above and beyond on our anniversary. Planning trips, massages, expensive dinners. To think 15 years ago I should have run the other way!! I remember my dad saying, you sure you want to do this? Anyway, advice on what I do tomorrow? Am I right say and do nothing?
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
