I won't respond to this one but why isn't it nice to just say "thanks" back? Also, I'm in the process of reading No More Mr. Nice Guy in case anyone was going to suggest that
Don't skip around and/or rush through the book. Read all of it, slowly. Then give us the answer to your question.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
